Choked by the bitterness of my disappointment

>> 09 January 2011

You hear quite a bit of anti-Starbucks rhetoric on the Interwebs. Corporate giant that destroys the fabric of small business- terrible coffee, hipster staff, and on and on. It seems to be one of those places you either love or hate.

For me Starbucks is a home away from home- a lovely place to enjoy a cup of coffee, a book and some quiet time until I have to be somewhere else.

Not to say I don't expect a certain amount of noise and distribance from the other customers. It's a public place, not the library for crying out loud. Although I have to say, I never quite understood that phrase. The library is the nosiest, most disruptive places on earth. All that making out, and porn and shaving each other's body hair in the bathroom. A virtual cornucopia of humanity at it's finest.

However Starbucks-a nice, relaxing place, Comfie furniture, soothing music, caffeine. Sort of what I imagine Heaven to look like.

So imagine how utterly pissed off I must have been the other day for the disruption in my beloved home away from home.

SuperGirl and I  were about 45 minutes early for a doctor’s appointment. Oh look a place to chat and enjoy a nice cinnamon dolce latte. Imagine my consternation then to find an employee and manager meeting happening not but two tables away. As I sipped my coffee and tried to pry into my daughter's life, talk  I was constantly interrupted by the management team reprimanding one of their employees in what was obviously an incredibly private meeting – HELD ON THE FLOOR IN FRONT OF ALL THE CUSTOMERS.

I looked at SuperGirl incredulously- really, making your employee cry in front of the whole store? Really? Don't you people have a break-room? She looked back at me, uncomfortable and squirmed in her seat a bit.

Most frustrating- the management team- not young, inexperienced kids like you'd imagine but older, professionally dressed women, the store and regional manager. Yes- I asked the counter staff.

I listened for a moment as the young employee stammered through her tears. She carefully explained- she'd asked for a transfer. How desperately she was trying to meet all her obligations. How she tried to schedule doctor's appointments around her work schedule.

 I could almost take it no longer. It was all I could do to contain myself. I knew not to say anything to the women seated around the table. I knew if I allowed myself to open my mouth I would have started with Who the hell do you think you are...to...Most unprofessional behavior I've ever seen...to ... how dare you...to ... You never, ever reprimand an employee in front of customers let alone other employees and much, much, much more. Plus a touch of how dare you air that woman's personal life in front of God and everyone?

But I didn't.  I refrained.

Because really, what good would it have done? Even had I stayed calm, quiet and collected, communicated my disapproval eloquently, that woman, that manager- she would have never gotten it. She would have never understood- her behavior, it was wrong.

You don't treat people that way. Even if they work for you.

Starbucks- I expect better from you.


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4 comments:

Miss Nikki January 10, 2011 7:45 AM  

First things first. I just noticed (weirdly) that I wasn't signed up as a follower of your blog? WTH? I've been following you since ... ever! Whatev!

I've been witness to situations like these before. Sadly, it's not because one becomes a manager that one has a way with dealing with people.

One time I stood up and handed a $5 to the person being yelled at, and said "Oh, this is for yesterday, thanks for your wonderful service" And the other time had me shaking in my undies when I used a famous line from a movie and looked at the pitbull boss and said "So, did you happen to kick a puppy on your way to work too?"

I'll never do THAT again, I thought he'd strangle me...

Anyhoo, I HATE HATE HATE it when I see such a thing!

Cyn January 10, 2011 10:50 AM  

Hey Zoe, you could write the corporate headquarters and complain about the behavior. That may or may not trickle down and get that berating manager her own lecture. Then at least you can feel like you've done something.

I once had a manager in a Kelsey's yell at me in front of my customers. It was awful, so I quit and I've never stepped foot in another Kelsey's since then.

Rachel January 10, 2011 12:14 PM  

I'm afraid I would have had to confront the manager. But I'm pretty good at keeping my cool and taking someone to task in a calm manner that just makes them look like even more of an ass. Then when I get home I rage to whoever will listen about it.

The Absence of Alternatives January 13, 2011 8:01 AM  

I am so surprised. Almost all of the Starbucks I visit on a regular basis (and there are quite a few. Shhh. Don't tell my husb...) seem to have high morale and nice collegiate atmosphere. Wow. That is totally F-U. I do think you did the right thing. Do you think you would have time/energy to maybe write a letter to Starbucks? I would LOVE to hear any update IF you do write the letter! Citizen Heroism: sticking up for the little guys! :-)

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